Revenge is pain that is given back to you. Revenge never appears from scratch. The person feels pain and tries to return it. Have you done something against him or he is in pain from his own envy of you and is trying to take revenge - the options may be different. Another question is what to do with someone else's revenge.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk frankly with the person who is taking revenge on you. Of course, this can only be done if before that there was at least some kind of friendly relationship between you. It is difficult to start heartfelt conversations from scratch. Try to figure out the reason for his behavior. In order to start such a conversation, you yourself will have to gather strength. When talking, it is important to refer to something that unites (or united) you and this person. If you are really guilty before him, admit your guilt. Try to explain the reason for your behavior. Say that you are sorry for what you did. This kind of frank conversation is worth starting if you are really regretful and want to make a difference. Any falsehood, lie will come to the surface sooner or later. Therefore, you shouldn't even start lying.
Step 2
You cannot ignore revenge. You will always have to answer with something. Defend and win, become a victim or just walk away. If revenge consists in psychological terror, if you can - fend off, answer the revenger with his own coin. But remember that when engaging in a fight with an evil person, you yourself will have to show malice, attack in order to reflect his attacks in the same way. We'll have to say unpleasant things, try to hurt them more painfully. Think if you need it? How much more precious is your own peace of mind? Perhaps the exclusion of such a person from the circle of their communication will be the best way out. If revenge goes beyond the boundaries of what is permissible, and a person threatens your health or even life, do not be afraid to ask for help from someone stronger than this person.
Step 3
To avoid becoming the target of someone's revenge, do not provoke people. Try to be tactful, restrained, especially with strangers. Entering into any dispute, remember that there is a living person in front of you. And he has his own beliefs, which are dear to him as well as your opinion is dear to you. Do not offend others, never publicly ridicule - just a public shame can provoke anyone, even the most intelligent person, to revenge. Be kinder to people and you will see how the world will change in relation to you. Enemies are very easy to get, but friends are much more difficult.
