Each day of the prisoners is similar to the previous one. They are very pleased to receive letters from close and dear people. This is support for them, a sign that they are loved and remembered. Waiting for a letter is a great torture for loving hearts, so it's better not to delay writing and sending it.
It is important to start the letter with an affectionate appeal to the person to whom the letter is being written. Many people think about the size of the letter. How much do you need to write, a few lines or pages? The answer is very simple. Since life in prison is monotonous enough, I want to diversify it with the pleasant words of a loved one. Accordingly, the more is written, the more pleasant it will be on the soul of a person. If there is such an opportunity, then the paper for writing should be of the best quality, so that it does not wrinkle to holes from frequent reading.
At any time, you need to have a piece of paper on hand to write down thoughts that may suddenly come to mind. This will help you not to miss anything important at the time of writing. When poisoning a letter, it is advisable to put an envelope and paper in it so that your loved one can send a response letter. The envelope should be signed so that it is not confiscated or accidentally lost, and it should be indicated in the letter. In the lines about the sender, you should indicate the details of the person who is in prison, and in the line of the recipient - the one who is at large.
In an envelope with a letter, you can attach a photo: joint with a man, where she is alone, or in common with a child (or children, if any). Later, you can send an album for photos so that they are not damaged or spoiled. The album will help to keep all the photos in one place, and not scattered all over the shelf in the cabinet.
General rules for writing a letter
- All letters received by the prisoners are strictly screened. All letters that do not comply with the rules will not reach the convict
- It is important to observe censorship when writing a letter. You shouldn't write an erotic message
- The details of the criminal case are not worth discussing. There is no need to write or ask about it, all this can negatively affect a person who is in prison
- The use of any means of communication in prisons is strictly prohibited. But there are situations when it is important to provide a phone number. In the letter, it should be added that a loved one can call from the prison phone as soon as he has such an opportunity.
- You can not write religious, fascist statements and any other prohibited by the charter.
- The envelope should not exceed a certain weight, otherwise it will return to the sender after a while. On it, the post office will write that the envelope exceeds the maximum allowable weight, and a small surcharge (up to several rubles) is required. All details can be found in the mail so that the letter arrives on time.
The emotional part of the letter
You can find out from a person:
- General information about the conditions in which he is (how many people sit with him, what they feed, etc.), how he feels, mood, any details that can help to find out what conditions the beloved man has got into.
- A woman can write what is happening in her life.
- It is very important for a prisoner to know that he is loved, remembered, expected, bored, believed that everything will be fine, and make further plans for life with this particular person.
- It is important to leave as many positive emotions as possible in the letter so that the person would be pleased to read and reread it.
- A woman should not unleash a flurry of criticism against a man or describe all the terrible things that happen to her. In the first case, it is still impossible to fix and change anything. And in the second case, he will not be able to help and will feel oppressed and helpless.
- Convicts communicate with many prisoners every day, later they learn to recognize lies, begin to "read" people, some have a subtle sense of people. A woman should not lie, otherwise the faithful will feel deception and may doubt love and fidelity.
- The letter can be supplemented with favorite lines from songs that are dear to both. This will help you smile even in such a difficult situation.
- People are deprived of the opportunity to visit the city, so you can write how: the city is changing, additional buildings appear, possibly cars. And the most changed parts of the city or favorite places can be photographed and enclosed in an envelope. Many people who later go free say that they do not recognize their city at all, as if they came here for the first time.
But it is still better if people who love each other do not get into such a situation and they do not have to think about what to write in a letter to a prisoner.
