It is believed that the days of true gentlemen are long gone. However, this statement cannot be accepted as the only true one. There are men who have preserved their honor and respect for people, who are able to live in such a way that afterwards they will not be ashamed of their actions. Being a gentleman is extremely difficult, since their inherent behavior can be very surprising to those around them, who are not used to observing good manners and restraint.
Instructions
Step 1
Behave with restraint. One of the most important virtues of a gentleman is the ability to restrain his emotions. Even if the interlocutor pisses you off, do not show your irritation, try to resolve the conflict using arguments that can convince. However, if someone offends you or loved ones, you must be able to defend yourself with dignity. There are situations in which diplomacy does not lead to the desired result.
Step 2
Learn to keep the conversation going. If you are not well versed in the topic of the conversation, ask exhaustive questions to the interlocutor. Thanks to this, you will please the person by listening to him, and you yourself will be enriched with new knowledge. However, try to correspond to the society in which you are and constantly develop by reading informative literature and watching interesting news.
Step 3
A gentleman must behave nobly. Never stoop to discussing the juicy details of someone else's life, do not spread gossip and try to express an impartial opinion. It is very important to treat fairly both your enemies and your loved ones. In any conflict situation, always stand up for a weaker opponent. It is extremely ugly when a man shouts at the elderly, women or children. Do not allow yourself to be like that and try to reason with others.
Step 4
Determine the rules for communicating with women. Never spread the details of your sex life, even if they concern women who played only an episodic significance in your life. Take good care of your companion. Whenever you go out in public, in a restaurant, theater or cinema, pay for the lady, if this does not contradict her beliefs. Do not insult, and do not raise your hand against a woman. Always remember that you are not only a gentleman, but also a strong man.
Step 5
Keep track of your appearance and wardrobe. Even if you cannot boast of elegant haute couture suits, strive to look neat in any situation, wear only clean clothes and shoes, and periodically visit a hairdresser. Don't forget what your hands look like. It is not forgivable for a gentleman to have dirty nails. Use nail scissors and nail files.
