The question of how to behave in society has always worried people. The very first literary sources testifying to the presence of moral values were found in the territory of ancient Mesopotamia. The Sumerians believed that the norms of behavior were given to them by the gods. In the Middle Ages, whole treatises appeared that set out the rules of good form. Over the years, they have changed, adapted to new conditions. And the question of behavior in society worries people as before.
Instructions
Step 1
"Nothing is as cheap or valued as much as courtesy." Whatever feelings you have for the person, always be polite. People with many friends know how and love to communicate. They feel at ease and confident in any company. Such a person will never be alone.
Step 2
Try to make the main rule of your communication with people a well-known saying: "Treat people the way you want them to treat you." Never talk badly or gossip about a person, even if you are very angry with him. Humor is appropriate. However, before you speak, consider if you will offend anyone in the audience with your joke. Mockery of the appearance, names, surnames of people is unacceptable. Such jokes will definitely offend and upset.
Step 3
Every person has a sense of their own worth. There are no perfect people. When you respect others, value and respect yourself. The attitude of those around you depends to a large extent on this.
Step 4
When talking to a person, do not interrupt him. First listen to it, and then give your opinion. If you were interrupted, do not shout and be indignant. Listen silently - there are still enough ill-mannered people around you. When communicating with a person, call him only by name. If you have received a gift, accept it with gratitude and admiration, even if something does not suit you.
Step 5
A polite person will remember to thank the other for the help or service rendered to him. And he will try to respond in kind. If you accidentally bother someone, be sure to apologize. The words "thank you", "please", "be kind", "if it does not bother you," etc. should become familiar and natural for you.
Step 6
A polite person has a sense of proportion. He is tactful and can find a common language with everyone. And communication will be pleasant and harmonious if the interlocutors respect each other's opinions.
Step 7
All these simple recommendations are known to everyone to one degree or another. But does everyone follow them? If you make polite communication with people your rule, you will soon notice that your circle of acquaintances is expanding, and you find it easier to find a common language with your interlocutors.
