Do you want to learn how to please people and attract attention to yourself? Or get rid of shyness and tightness? Or maybe you want more - to become a bright personality that attracts the attention of many people?
The tips in this article will help you learn to be the center of attention!
Instructions
Step 1
How to attract people's attention to yourself?
Getting other people's attention is the easiest way to be the center of attention. To attract the attention of other people, you just need to be different from them.
The easiest way to do this is through looks.
Step 2
Clothing. Dress in the latest fashion, or extravagantly. In clothes colors, give preference to bright, catchy colors. If you want to be the center of attention of the opposite sex, choose a sexy style of clothing. For a woman, for example, these are tight-fitting clothes that emphasize the seductiveness of forms. Also add one or two small touches: a slit on the skirt / dress, neckline, or a pair of open buttons on the blouse; red stiletto heels, etc.
Step 3
Decorations. Give preference to extravagant or ethnic jewelry. Or it can be a decoration "with a twist".
Step 4
Hairstyle. The easiest way to get people's attention is to get a fancy hairstyle. But this is optional. The main thing is that the hairstyle should be in harmony with your clothing style and image.
Step 5
But looks aren't everything. Your demeanor is also important: shocking or mysterious, whichever you like best.
Step 6
However, do not forget the proverb: "they are greeted by their clothes - they are escorted by their minds." Do not forget that appearance is still a wrapper, your content is much more important.
Step 7
How to get rid of shyness and tightness?
Shyness, shyness, low self-esteem, various complexes - all this very, very much interferes with being in the spotlight. Even if you don't strive to be the center of attention, sometimes you still have to do it. For example, speak in public, give a speech, express your opinion, etc. Shyness and complexes force you to "keep your head down", "hide in the sink" and avoid situations where you need to be the center of attention.
If you are afraid to be in the spotlight, you will not be appreciated, you will not be promoted, you will not be able to create the right impression at the right moment. But in this way you are missing your chance. If you are always invisible, you will never reach your full potential.
The best way to learn to be the center of attention is through practice, constant practice of communication. Communicate constantly with a wide variety of people. Develop your self-esteem.
Step 8
Don't get hung up on what people think of you. If you are afraid of criticism, stop criticizing yourself. At the time of communication or speech, do not think about what people think of you. You are not there, there are only thoughts that you want to share, or ideas that you want to convey. When a person talks about something with enthusiasm, he does not think about himself in these minutes.
Step 9
How to become the soul of the company
To become the soul of the company, you need to be able to interest, amuse or surprise people. In general, to be a "ringleader".
Show a sense of humor, wit, tell jokes or describe hilarious stories in faces.
Step 10
It's good if you have a hobby or interest to show off to your friends. For example, songs with a guitar, or some tricks. It's good if you have a rich imagination and generate ideas, so you won't get bored with you.
Step 11
True, not everyone can be the soul of the company. For example, if you are a self-absorbed introvert. Then why would you play someone else's role? Be yourself first of all, be an interesting conversationalist - that's quite enough!
Step 12
How to become a bright personality
The focus of people is on those people who represent something of themselves. People who just want to stand out, make an impression, are superficial. They mistake the external quality for the internal content.
Meanwhile, a bright and charismatic person can dress discreetly, behave with modest dignity, not be the soul of the company, and even avoid increased attention to himself.
To become such a person, you must first self-actualize in professional activities. You need to be an individualist and not adapt to the tastes and desires of the majority. You need to be a strong personality. You need to have character to achieve your goal. Such - strong and successful - people are always attractive to other people.
