Despite all the delights of life, sad moments cannot be avoided. In such a difficult and sorrowful event as the death of a person, it is necessary to observe mourning as a sign of sorrow and sorrow.
Instructions
Step 1
Observe the customs of the country in which you live. When appointing mourning at the state level in connection with the death of a large number of people, hold out a minute of silence as a sign of respect for the victims and solidarity with the rest of the population of the country in expressing condolences to their families. State flags will be lowered, and entertainment TV programs will be canceled.
Step 2
Wear black clothing when a relative or friend dies. Deep mourning implies that all your clothes should be black, and in case of half-mourning, you are allowed to wear only one black item, for example, a dress or a headscarf.
Step 3
Observe mourning immediately after the death of a person. The duration of the mourning depends on the degree of closeness of the deceased to you. For example, after the death of a spouse, it is necessary to observe mourning for a year, and those who have lost their spouse must be in mourning for six months. They grieve for their parents for a year, for less close relatives from three months to six months.
Step 4
Refrain from entertainment and attending holidays, marriage during mourning. You should not arrange lavish celebrations, have fun, sing and dance. Do not deny yourself the communication. If you feel that it is hard for you, feel the need to talk about your loss, to cry, then do not hesitate to express your emotions.
Step 5
Pray for the deceased, fervently and wholeheartedly, if you are a believer. In addition to the external attributes of mourning, this is an important condition for observing mourning. If the deceased was baptized, order a magpie, and on the ninth and fortieth days after his death, you need to serve a panikhida. Do not forget to subsequently mention the name of the deceased, received during the baptismal ceremony, in prayers for the repose.
Step 6
Hang mirrors in the deceased's home before funeral. It is also customary to stop the clock in the room.