The ability to understand people is a quality that everyone needs. Thanks to the ability to understand people, you will be able to understand a person - do you know him for a long time or see him for the first time.
In addition, you will not make mistakes by entering into relationships with dishonest or simply unsuitable people. Also, you cannot be mistaken in choosing a life partner, friends, business partners. A deep understanding of people will give you the opportunity to forge great relationships with the people who are right for you. The ability to understand people is not innate, it comes with experience. And most importantly, you can learn it
Instructions
Step 1
There are many ways in which you can “read a person like an open book”. Some of them are more or less simple, others take a lot of time to master. You can use the method that you like best, or combine different ones.
Reading non-verbal body language, facial expressions and gestures. You can read about how to learn to read the thoughts and feelings of others by facial expressions and gestures in the popular bestseller by Alan and Barbara Pease "Body Language"
Step 2
Reading in the face (physiognomy). Determination of character by facial features is an ancient knowledge that at first was available only to a select few and was part of the occult sciences. There are a lot of books on physiognomy, see, for example, a selection
Well, as entertainment at your leisure, you can compose a composite of a person using the digital physiognomy program
This computer program determines the character and makes a psychological portrait of a person.
Step 3
Determining the character of a person by handwriting (graphology) will help you "read" the character of a person, even if you have never seen him in the eye. If you would like to learn how to determine a person's character traits by handwriting, you may be interested in the book "Handwriting and Personality. A Method for Determining Character by Handwriting" by the well-known expert-graphologist D. Zuev-Insarov. (https://www.mediaarhiv.net/1835-pocherk-i-lichnost-sposob-opredeleniya-xa …
Step 4
Determining the character of a person by hand (palmistry) will not only allow you to "read" people, but also to know the past and future of a person. You can download the book on palmistry at the link
Step 5
Determination of the personality type by the aura. In the book by Pamala Donkey "All about the aura. The secret color code of success and happiness" you will find a description of both your aura color and the aura color of the people around you
Step 6
"Reading" a person using mixed media: body language, face reading and reading a person's aura.
How to learn this, you will learn from the book by Rose Rosetree "The language of facial expressions and gestures, the human aura."
Link: https://www.poluchat.ru/gl/215690. It is worth noting that this method not only combines reading body language and facial expressions, human aura, but is also very easy to use
Step 7
The psychotypes of people are also described by the science of socionics. Thus, in the book "Types of People: 16 Types of Personality" by Otto Kroeger and Janet Tewson, a description of the types of people is given. Knowing these 16 types will help you understand the reasons and motives for the actions of other people, as well as understand yourself - for example, determine the aptitude for a particular profession. Book link
Step 8
And, of course, the science of the human soul is psychology.
It is very useful - at least for self-education - to read books on both theory and practical psychology. For example, the book by Arkady Egides "How to learn to understand people" describes the main psychotypes of people - "paranoid psychotype", "epileptoid", "hysteroid", "hypertim" and "schizoid". Do not be confused by the names of the psychotypes of people. The book is written in an accessible, interesting and ironic form, expands the understanding of the main types of people. Link:
