Some girls are used to the fact that representatives of the stronger sex take all the initiative in bed. They believe that they themselves can remain passive, since the man will do everything himself. And the guys, in turn, just dream that their lady would do everything herself.
What are men waiting for
It has long been customary that the leading role in intimate married life, and just in the beginning of a relationship belongs to men. Since the number of men is much smaller, they are used to making a choice between one or another applicant. The women obediently waited and agreed with this. Now everything has changed dramatically - women are not satisfied with the passive role in life and relationships. They themselves choose this or that man and even "take" him away from rivals - they conquer. But we can say that men do not mind, they like it and even flatter it.
They are waiting to see which of the fair sex will show itself faster and better. Now women share the initiative with men, not only at the initial stage of relationships, but also in sex.
Who should take the lead in intimate life
Most likely, most of us will have an answer to this question - equally or alternately. Neither partner will like it if the other is indifferent, and the other will turn inside out in order to please. Gone are the days when women were embarrassed to show their sexual experience, and it was considered the height of indecency to take the very first step to intimacy with a loved one.
The manifestation of sexual interest in the second half, suggests that the partner is not indifferent to him and wants to get to know him "better". It can also be the one with the brighter fantasy or more experience. In any case, there is nothing shameful in this if two people like each other or, moreover, are in love. Perhaps this will be the one who will be in high spirits at the moment of intimacy and will come up with some new pleasant fun for the second half. And men in our time have gone a little strange - they are waiting for something, afraid to take the first step. Therefore, quite often the role of the instigator of intimacy falls on the female share. The main thing is not to overdo it, otherwise in a man it can cause some complexes and then you will definitely not wait for initiatives from him, dear ladies. Although most men still like to "command" in bed - in terms of the choice of positions and places of intimacy.
But it also happens that a tired husband comes home and is not even averse to giving up the reins of sex to his beloved. However, women sometimes also want to feel weak and seduced.
In general, it does not matter who is the first to show signs of sexual interest, the main thing is for both partners to enjoy it.