Respect is the recognition of certain virtues. It is incredibly difficult to achieve it from others, to become a noticeable and recognizable person. Is it possible to achieve respect in a fairly short time, and what is needed for this?
Instructions
Step 1
It is impossible to achieve universal respect, so you should talk about respect from those people whose opinion is important to you. But before you win their recognition, try to understand, is it really that important to you? Isn't the desire to achieve it a manifestation of selfishness, pride, and even petty toadiness? On the other hand, if you feel your high potential and want to take a worthy place in society, there is nothing wrong with that.
Step 2
Respect does not come from scratch, it must be earned. Respect for something, so identify an area of activity in which you can achieve something. And remember that it is for the deeds that they are valued, not for the possession. Trying to gain respect just by owning an expensive car and other attributes of a luxurious life is doomed to failure. You may be envied, but if you have not earned all these things with your work, intelligence, talent, genuine recognition from serious people - those whose respect really means something - you will not achieve.
Step 3
Having chosen a field of activity, get down to business. At the same time, do not forget one important point: a person who is really worth something will achieve success in any undertaking, no matter what business he undertakes. Conversely, a "dummy" person will not be able to succeed anywhere. Thus, in the end, everything depends on psychology, on the ability to change oneself in the right way. The strong are respected, in whatever form this power is manifested. Therefore, the main task is to change yourself, everything else - deeds and respect - will follow.
Step 4
But how do you get strong? First of all, stop considering yourself weak, worthless, unlucky (if you had such thoughts), with such thoughts you form the corresponding reality. On the contrary, feel yourself as a strong-willed person for whom the word "impossible" does not exist. Don't tell yourself that you want something, that is fundamentally wrong. One of the main secrets of the universe - and this is really a secret that very few know - is that it always agrees with your desires. You say, "I want to be rich." And the universe agrees: "Okay, you want to." You want, but do not achieve the result, because you incorrectly formulate "order". The correct option is to say: “I am very rich,” that is, to feel like a rich person here and now. The more clearly you feel that you are a rich, respected person, the faster it will become a reality - the world will simply adjust to your feelings, give you all the necessary opportunities.
Step 5
Use psychophysical exercises to help you feel strong. For example, walking down the street, feel like a strong predator - a bear, a wolf, a tiger … Do not show your attitude openly, let everything happen only in your mind. Feel big and strong, consolidate this feeling. And you will see how the attitude of other people towards you will change - they will feel your strength. Gaining strength will have the most beneficial effect on your affairs - they will go better and better.
