In our youth, it is difficult for us to understand why these old people are so eternally restless in their discontent, why they always lament, and they don’t like everything - you don’t go on dates like that, and your clothes are like a ragamuffin’s, and you have expressions. some obscene, and in general you have no conscience, but in their times … In a word, our old people love to grumble.
Indeed, due to their age, it is hard for them to live, they do not keep up with the modern pace of life, they love memories of their youth to such an extent that they even get too hung up on them. All this can explain their intractable behavior. But until you yourself experience it all for yourself, these words will remain words. Just try to understand them. And do not think that they are so difficult to please. Old people simply suffer from a lack of attention. Give it to them, and you will see how they will sharply rejuvenate, and their behavior will change a lot for the better. And there, next to attention, you, in turn, will find respect for the elderly.
Despite the fact that our old people suffer from visual impairments, memory and hearing, they cannot be denied a kind of worldly wisdom. Listen to what they have to say and try to shift the point to our reality. You will find that there are rational seeds in their words.
Stop getting annoyed if your grandparents are suddenly interested in your hobbies. In most cases, old people remain young at heart, but they worry that due to their age they could not realize themselves in something. Try to involve the parents of the parents in your hobby. Perhaps it will be even more fun for you together, and the old man's ingenuity will tell you something interesting.
Help the elderly, suddenly, except for you, no one can help them. But do it correctly - some old people are very shy, especially when it comes to today's youth. Give them gifts. Just like that, for no reason and from a pure heart. The warmth that is born at this moment in the eyes of the elderly has nothing to compare in life with.
