Many, who got nasty in the morning in transport, sometimes worry about this all day, or even longer, their mood is spoiled. To prevent this from happening, you need to arm yourself with simple, but very effective ways to tame the impudent.
Any boor has a single goal - he wants to piss off his opponent in order to get maximum pleasure from the process. And the reason for this is simple: such antics of ill-mannered people are pushed by their own complexes, as well as unresolved personal problems. Ham does not notice that he himself is mired in his own weaknesses, and this is what can be skillfully used. Before you say something in response, you need to be silent a little, because in the heat of the moment you can say something that will be ashamed in the end, and the duel with the boor will be lost. You can only resist with wit and a joke, in such a situation the impudent turns out to be defeated, and if he is also ridiculed by those around him, you can immediately become the master of the situation from a victim.
Hams in everyday life
Often sellers are rude in stores, waiters in cafes, officials in reception areas, and people around them in ordinary life. They have one reason: they feel that they are lower on the social ladder than the person to whom they are rude. The seller tries to assert himself at the expense of the visitors, and the waiter is already used to communicating this way, because he is addressed in the same tone. From such a situation it is necessary to get out beautifully, with humor. If you let go of a subtle joke with a hint, we can assume that the deputy has been put in place. You can deal with a waiter or a seller very quickly, just write a complaint to the owner. A couple of such statements, and a negligent garcon or a counter clerk will be fired.
A simple example. A woman, with a defiant make-up and extended nails, decided to swim and enters the water, looking down on everyone and releasing taunts at the swimmers. A middle-aged man swam past and accidentally splashed the lady on the chest. She called him and said that he was interfering with her swimming here. The man replied that it was not he who was hindering her, but her own menopause. The woman quickly retreated, as she became a laughing stock to those around her.
Hams at work
It is difficult to work in an atmosphere where one of your colleagues is constantly trying to be rude and humiliating. Such a person is probably driven by a feeling of envy. But he can be answered several times in a satirical manner, and he will lag behind. The main thing is not to get into a skirmish, you cannot come out victorious.
If the boss, who feels superior, behaves in this way, it is more difficult to answer with dignity, but there are options. He can simply be reminded that in front of him is a person with his own sense of pride, and there is no need to talk in that tone. Usually, after such a conversation, the authorities have another victim.
It is necessary to remain calm in all situations, especially in these. If you break into a shout and retaliatory insults, then the respondent will be guilty of the squabble that has arisen.
