As a child, it seems to us that friends are forever. But school and student years pass, friends fly all over the world, and there is no news from them for a long time. And when the coordinates of an old friend are in the hands, doubts suddenly begin to prevail - what to ask for, what to talk about and whether to resume communication? After all, so many years have passed … You should not be afraid, you will have something to remember.
Instructions
Step 1
An event in your life - an old friend was found. The long-broken connection is about to resume, you just need to make up your mind and take the first step towards the long-awaited meeting …
Step 2
First of all, if you want to remind yourself, think about what you want to say. If it was a close friend with whom the connection was lost, there is no need for a reason - you just need to tell what happened during the time until you saw each other: news in work, personal life, travel, achievements. It is not necessary to start with bragging, but a piece of personal information will win over the interlocutor.
Step 3
Other friends will need a reason. A meeting of classmates, classmates and colleagues is a meeting for some general reason, be it a trip to a former school, a trip to visit a teacher, supervisor or boss. Here the pretext is obvious - contact your friend boldly, invite him to the meeting, and the conversation will start by itself.
Step 4
But how do you start chatting with old friends? There are many ways to get in touch now, but sometimes not all are appropriate.
Social networks - probably only the lazy does not know about them. In "Odnoklassniki" and "Vkontakte" you can find anyone, learning along the way about all relatives and friends. Write a message to an old friend, identify who you are. The conversation is likely to start by itself. But you should not get into friends - it is better to offer to meet if you are in the same city. By the way, a trip to the city where an old acquaintance lives is an excellent excuse to meet.
Step 5
An ordinary phone call. What could be easier? Dial an old friend's number, introduce yourself and be sure to ask if he has time to chat. You can make a kind of "telephone meeting" at a convenient time for both. The person will have time to remember, prepare and decide what he wants (and whether he wants to tell you at all).
Step 6
And most importantly, if communication with a friend stopped due to your fault, you should honestly tell what caused such a long break in communication. We are all human, and we all have our own reasons for not communicating with the world for some time, including relatives and old friends. Explain and you will be understood.
