“Trouble has come - open the gate” - this is how people usually say about troubles and troubles that happen in a row, one negative event after another. A bit strange expression.
"Trouble has come - open the gate" - at first glance, the saying seems absurd: it would seem that if trouble has come, you need to defend yourself from it, and not "open the gate." But sayings are not just phrases thrown by someone in passing. The wisdom of more than one generation is contained in every such statement. This means that not everything is as simple as it seems at first glance.
Inner attitude
Psychologists say that a person who is focused on success is most likely to receive this success. And if someone is constantly subconsciously sure that nothing good will happen in his life? If, having gone through another trouble, a person is already waiting for the next one? If even in moments of joy and peace he is sad, because he is sure that soon something bad will happen and the "bright streak" in his life will end?
Such a pessimist seems to "attract" troubles, they happen regularly. Then both the person himself and his entourage resign themselves to the fact that he is a failure. But isn't such a gloomy-minded type himself attracting his troubles
Here you can remember one more saying: "Whoever is more afraid of something, then it will definitely happen to him."
The world is a mirror that returns a person his own view of reality. If you approach the mirror in a gloomy mood, the same gloomy face will look in response from behind the glass. But if you look at reality with a positive attitude, it will return this positive in the form of good luck and joyful events.
Accept the world
The proverb, if you think about it, has another meaning. Everything that happens in life, good or bad, is necessary for some reason. Fighting with what has already happened is not worth it. This was remarkably expressed by Sergei Yesenin: “You need to live easier, you need to live easier, accepting everything in the world …”.
The quote is taken from a poem by S. A. Yesenin "The wind whistles, the silver wind …"
It is much wiser to admit to yourself that there is an unpleasant situation, and not to grieve over this, but to calmly analyze what happened and think about what to do next.
It often happens that events that seemingly do not bode well, become the beginning of great successes. A person is not always able to adequately assess all the opportunities that life provides him, and "calculate" all the pros and cons of the situation. So it is worth "opening the gates" to everything that happens, and looking for positive and new opportunities even in the troubles of life.
