A good, unobtrusive person, whose benevolence is sincere and advice is always welcome, is welcome in any home. But it also happens that people who are unpleasant to you perceive your good manners as weakness. They use it, appearing in your house, imposing their communication on you, wasting your time. It is imperative to drive such people away from home if you want to maintain your mental health and peace of mind.
Instructions
Step 1
If a person calls you on the phone to warn you about their arrival, then there is nothing easier than saying that you are tired, go to bed or simply do not want to see anyone. It is your right. There is no need to stand on ceremony with those who want to appear without an invitation.
Step 2
Do not open and do not respond to the doorphone call if there was no preliminary call. Well-mannered people do not come into the house without warning the owners of their arrival, and ill-mannered people can be left on the street. Why should you let a person into the house who does not reckon with the owners? Having got into such a situation two or three times, even a very “thick-skinned” person will understand that he is not welcome here.
Step 3
Unwillingness to communicate can and be demonstrated in the event that an uninvited guest still managed to get into your house. Demonstrate distraction and boredom, do not listen to the interlocutor. Answer inappropriately or, interrupting him, start talking about yours, which does not interest him at all. You can defiantly yawn a couple of times, and then, referring to a desire to rest, send him out of the house.
Step 4
Behave in an unfriendly manner, start criticizing your guest, make fun of all his actions, hairstyle, and dressing in an offensive manner. This is not pleasant for anyone to listen to. But to completely confuse, ask the person to borrow a large amount of money. This method is especially good when you know for sure that he has them.
Step 5
Of course, the above methods require you to be strong enough. In the case when you are not at all a “fighter” and cannot in any way get an annoying and unpleasant person out of the house, you just have to resort to folk methods. Cross the back of the departing guest with an old five-kopeck coin and say to yourself: "I baptize - I do not bless, I send you your evil, I close the road to my house." After that, throw a coin at some intersection and, without looking back, go home.
