A neighbor on the staircase bought a new perforator and on a day off from the very morning cannot but boast of its power to the entire entrance? Or inspiration descends on him at midnight, and he begins to sing, and you cannot appreciate his talent because of the desire to sleep? Then it makes sense to have a constructive conversation with him, and thereby pacify.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you start taking action against your neighbor, correlate what is happening with the specified rights and obligations of a person in the constitution. How legitimate are the actions of your neighbor and how legitimate will your reaction to them be?
Step 2
In the event that the behavior of the neighbor is inappropriate, try to soberly assess the situation and think over the appropriate ways of interacting with him. The intensity of emotions will be superfluous here, and conflicts born in affect can easily harm your health.
Step 3
If a noisy neighbor poses no real threat to you, go to the site and ring the doorbell. When it appears, we recommend using the assertive behavior technique. Assertive behavior is the achievement of a desired outcome through polite patient negotiation.
In this case, the goal is to reduce the noise level in the neighboring apartment. Then negotiations can begin like this:
- Hello. I understand that you need to make repairs in your apartment. You even have time for this - from 8 am to 11 pm. But now it is not yet 8, and we all want to spend the remaining "quiet" time for sleep, and not on a showdown.
If the neighbor turns out to be intractable, agree with the part of the statement in which he is right, and then offer an alternative. For example:
- Yes, in your apartment you can do whatever you want. But it would be great if you could find something calmer and quieter for yourself now.
And so on until you achieve the desired result. Feel free to repeat your requirements, but do so in the correct, polite manner. Sooner or later, the neighbor will give up, because he realizes that you are right. And even if he does not understand, it will still be very difficult for him to resist a confident and assertive interlocutor.
Step 4
If a neighbor does not accept your requirements, you have the right to call the police, having previously warned him about this.
Step 5
But there are such apartments, to whose residents it is initially useless to go with peace negotiations. People with marginal lifestyles don't bother looking at their watches before they start spending time the way they like. In this case, it is better to immediately shift the function of restraint to the police officers.
