The years of Soviet atheism have practically eradicated official church etiquette from the lives of our fellow citizens. Many today do not know how to address the clergy. And, if such a need suddenly arises, a person who is far from observing church canons may find himself in an uncomfortable position. Especially if he had foreign "padres" and "holy father" in his mind. In fact, a priest of the Russian Orthodox Church, especially a patriarch, must be addressed in accordance with special rules.
Instructions
Step 1
It should be noted that you will hardly be able to easily chat with the Patriarch of Moscow and All Russia. Although His Holiness Vladyka Kirill is actively involved in pastoral work and constantly communicates with the people, all his appearances are under strict control. Special services monitor the safety of the head of the Russian Orthodox Church no worse than the safety of the country's president. The patriarch blesses ordinary parishioners, says parting words to them. Long dialogues, as a rule, are preceded by preliminary preparation, one might even say - instruction.
Step 2
But if, nevertheless, such a case presents itself, one should turn to the patriarch: "Your Holiness" and "Vladyka" (well, or more modernly: "Vladyka"). Since it is customary for Orthodox Christians to ask a priest for blessing for all actions, including at a meeting, it would be more appropriate to say first: "Vladyka, bless." And then talk about the main things, addressing the patriarch: "Your Holiness …."
Step 3
In an official written speech, the patriarch can be addressed with the words: "Your Eminence …"
Step 4
However, words are far from everything in the communication process. Gestures are also important, they can tell a lot about a person. It happens that a layman, wanting to show that he is no stranger to the church, begins to be baptized at the sight of a clergyman. It is not right. Having met with a familiar clergyman in a public place, a well-mannered person will necessarily greet, and a church-going person can slightly bow his head. In closer communication, it is necessary to fold the right palm over the left - this way you show that you are asking for a blessing. When addressing the patriarch, the same rule applies.
Step 5
But what if you are an atheist or a member of another denomination? If this is a matter of principle, and you cannot turn to the patriarch in accordance with church etiquette, this can be done not as a true believer. The main thing is to show yourself as a well-mannered person. For example, say: "Dear", "Sir".
Step 6
Can you say: "Father" or "Father?" Priest in a simple way is called priests among the people. This is a familiar appeal. The father is more formal. Any clergyman can be called a father - there will be no gross mistake.
