When you receive an invitation for a birthday, a person thereby kind of informs you that they love you, are significant to him, it is pleasant to communicate with you. In this situation, it can be difficult to say no. How to do this so as not to offend the birthday boy?
It is necessary
- - present;
- - flowers;
- - postcard.
Instructions
Step 1
Say that it is a great joy and honor for you to be invited to this birthday, but, unfortunately, circumstances are such that you cannot be present at the holiday. Do not limit yourself to vague links, be sure to tell the birthday boy in detail what matters have distracted you, if this, of course, is not a secret.
Step 2
Reassure the birthday boy that you are even more upset about not being able to attend the birthday party. As a "moral compensation", invite him out for lunch or dinner on another day.
Step 3
Prepare a gift for the birthday person and present it personally after his birthday. It is not worth congratulating and giving gifts in advance: some are of the opinion that this is a bad omen.
Step 4
Order a beautiful bouquet of the birthday person's favorite flowers from a flower shop and pay for delivery by courier to the venue. Accompany the flowers with a note or a postcard in which you write your congratulations and wishes, and also remind you once again how you regret not being able to attend the holiday.
