Condolence is a responsiveness to the grief of another person, to the experiences and unhappiness of other people, which is expressed in words both orally and in writing. Condolences can also be expressed in the form of actions. How to choose the right words, what kind of behavior is permissible so as not to hurt, offend, and not cause even more worries?
Instructions
Step 1
Don't be shy about your feelings. You should not try to restrain yourself in showing kindness to the unfortunate and in expressing comforting words to the victim. Remember that compassion cannot be expressed only in words of compassion. If you do not find the right words, then express condolences by what your inner voice tells you.
Step 2
Touch the grieving person. You can also stroke and shake his hand, hug, kiss, or even cry with a person who needs compassion. Express your grief and sympathy. This is the way of condolences who are not closely related to the family of the deceased, or who communicated with him a little during his lifetime. They can shake hands with the relatives of the deceased in the cemetery as a sign of condolences.
Step 3
Choose only sincere, comforting phrases and words for condolence. Support these words by offering all the help you can. By the way, this is according to the Russian tradition. People who sympathize with the grief of others have always understood that their kind words without action can seem dead, just formal.
Step 4
Pray for the grieving and deceased. You can give the notes to the church. You can help with housework and funeral arrangements; this is also an offer to help with housework and funeral arrangements. You can offer financial assistance as well as other types of assistance. Your cooperation will be reinforced by words of condolences. This will make life easier for the grief-stricken one. Feel free to take an interest in the grieving person. Ask what you can do for the grief-stricken person. This will make your condolences sincere.
Step 5
Do not have grudges against the person to whom you will offer condolences. It is insult and innuendo that prevent you from saying kind and comforting words. In prayer, you must forgive everyone, then you can easily pronounce good words.
