Condolences to a person, we express our participation in the feelings of the loss of a loved one, we share his pain. The death of a loved one makes a person more sensitive and vulnerable, so it is necessary to carefully select the words of condolence.
Instructions
Step 1
If you have received the news of the death of a person you know, but for some reason cannot be personally present at the funeral ceremony, send a telegram expressing condolences. There should be few words in it. In no case do not write a telegram in poetic form or with quotations from books. The telegram will look too pretentious.
Step 2
Send a telegram as soon as you receive the news of death. If you hesitate a little, then your condolences after a while will be an inappropriate reminder to relatives of the loss of a loved one.
Step 3
Imagine that you are talking to a relative of the deceased in person. When choosing words to express condolences, try to structure the sentence so that it sounds most sincere. The purpose of the telegram is to comfort and support the grieving person.
Step 4
In no case write a telegram in poetic form or quotes from books
Step 5
In modern society, there is no culture of death and burial, so it becomes embarrassing to talk about it. Expressing condolences has become an element of etiquette. Read the special editions that contain guides on how to write grieving words, explaining the circumstances under which words to write. The guide provides examples for specific cases of loss of a spouse, child, colleague, parents, etc.
Step 6
Follow the established order of thought when expressing condolences in a telegram. First, express your regret for what happened, then express condolences to the relatives. Communicate that you are ready to support grieving people at any time. The loved ones of the deceased should appreciate your friendly, sincere participation. Be sure to sign at the end of the telegram and do not forget to indicate those who join your words of sympathy.
