If you want to become a prominent person in society, you need to change your behavior towards openness and purposefulness. Do you want to be considered a self-sufficient person? Choose honest paths worthy of respect for this.
Instructions
Step 1
Have your own point of view. Personal opinion will characterize you as a thinking person, able to analyze, and therefore of interest. Forget the phrases “I don’t even know”, “what can you say here,” etc. Learn to speak out loud about your own judgment. You can start with compliments. If you like something about a person, why not let him know about it? And later it will be much easier for you to talk about controversial points in a particular conflict situation.
Step 2
Willy-nilly, conflicts attract attention. In any unclear or unpleasant situation, behave yourself with dignity. Knowing how to admit your guilt and ask for forgiveness will help you maintain a respectful community. If you criticize a person, do it diplomatically and tactfully. Don't blame based on unverified facts. And one more thing: try not to give advice if no one asks for it.
Step 3
Do what you love and improve your talents. This allows you to set goals, achieve them, and therefore grow in your own eyes and the eyes of the public. The higher you set the bar, the more contact with people it requires. To get noticed, work for results. Remember that if you do nothing, nothing will happen.
Step 4
Use a sense of humor. It will help you fend off in a difficult situation, and also contribute to the fact that you will be paid attention, even if you are in a small company of unfamiliar people. Know how to distinguish jokes from ridicule, as, for example, caricature differs from caricature. There are also a number of "forbidden" topics, for example, someone else's appearance or complexes.
Step 5
To attract attention, some representatives of society deliberately "warm up" interest in their person, using "black" PR, annoying self-promotion, revenge, gossip, shocking behavior, etc. Of course, these methods leave resonance in society, but most of them speak of low self-esteem. If a person goes out of his way to please others, it looks clearly inappropriate, if not ridiculous. They will talk about you, but will they respect you?
