A person, by nature, simply cannot help but communicate with his own kind. At home, at work, on vacation, there are sure to be "good guys" with whom you can have a great time. But often circumstances develop in such a way that you have to deal with unpleasant people. Therefore, it is very important to know how to deal with your enemies.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to distance yourself from the enemy. This is the easiest way to avoid conflicts. The less often you see someone unpleasant to you, the less there will be reasons for squabbles and quarrels. And this is necessary in order not to waste your nerves.
Step 2
Determine the type of your enemy if you cannot avoid communication with him. Of course, it is very convenient when you can simply stop calling the enemy, meet with him, etc. But if you have to communicate with this person on a daily basis? For example, a colleague is your enemy. Then, before you do anything, you need to determine who this person is: a brawler, a gossip or a whiner. Each of them has its own ways of neutralization.
Step 3
Ignore all the antics of the brawler. This type of people is different in that they absolutely do not care with whom, how and for what reason they quarrel. They enjoy the process itself. Your ignorance of their screams will nullify all their efforts to piss you off. By responding to the attacks of the enemy, you will only play along with him and thereby aggravate your situation. Agree that someone who is constantly in conflict with someone is more likely to succeed.
Step 4
Stop telling the gossiper anything. This category of enemies is the most dangerous because they act on the sly. At first, gossipers seem to be "best friends", they listen to all your complaints with participation, assent to all comments, regret and calm you down. But after a while you begin to catch mocking looks and hear laughter behind your back. Eliminate all conversations involving bosses or influential people if you encounter a gossip outside of work. The less information you give out, the less reason there will be to reproach you for something.
Step 5
Copy the behavior of the whiner when communicating with him. Such people often waste your time and can set you up at any time. They constantly complain about their lives. To stop being a "vest" for such a person, just start spreading to him how bad everything is with you. After a while, you will forget that this person caused you any inconvenience.
