Parting is always stressful for both parties, both for the woman and for the man. Not everyone is able to endure parting with dignity, keeping themselves in control and calmly experiencing the events that have taken place. Many people prefer to grab onto a departing relationship with their last bit of strength, even if they realize that this relationship has come to an end. What is the right way to part with a person, and how to make an important decision about parting?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, never give up on your decisions. If you decide that you want to part with a person, follow this decision, by all means, without indulging your weaknesses and desires. Answer yourself honestly if you are able to let go of the person you have lived with for some time and start a new life.
Step 2
Try to talk seriously and calmly with your partner - if the relationship has become obsolete, both of you will feel relief from its end. Be honest with your partner - tell him that you see no further perspective from your future together, but emphasize that you still respect and value the person who lived next to you.
Step 3
After breaking up, try not to bump into your ex - do not contact him, do not call him or write. Even if for some reason you live in the same room, settle in different rooms and divide the property.
Step 4
If you want to maintain a friendly relationship with your ex, wait a long time for the pain of the breakup to subside, and only then try to renew the relationship.
Step 5
For a correct and final farewell to a person, be honest not only with him, but also with yourself. Be aware of the motives of your actions, do not commit rash and impulsive actions, do not deny the obvious.
Step 6
Do not be afraid of the unknown - even if now you experience the pain of parting, the joy of new acquaintances and new events in life will drown it. Always voice your decision to break up - first to yourself and then to your partner.
Step 7
Do not try to hide problems - do as you see fit and explain the reasons for your actions. Do not forget to show respect for your partner, even if he offended you - this attitude says a lot about your inner dignity. Start a new life and let go of the past - and the separation will not seem such a negative event to you.
