Many people all over the world take vows: celibacy, silence, monastic vows. A vow is not only a rejection of something, it is a promise made to God and to oneself to do something, be it a good deed, a donation or an ascetic feat. You should know that vows are given both temporarily and for life. Failure to fulfill or break a promise made to God is a grave sin, therefore, before doing this, you should carefully think and weigh your decision. How is the vow made?
Instructions
Step 1
Decide why you are going to take a vow - any, for example, celibacy. Perhaps there are reasons for this - religious beliefs, or you want to prove something to yourself, or are going to focus your energy in a different direction. Perhaps by taking a vow of celibacy, for example, you simply want to avoid sexually transmitted diseases or the appearance of unplanned children. Regardless of the true reason, state the essence of your beliefs before you voluntarily surrender.
Step 2
Be sincere in your reasoning and don't make rash decisions. You must be careful with your decision, as it can affect your life to a large extent.
Step 3
Tell others about your vow. While you may try to keep your decision a secret, in some cases it will be more effective to keep this vow if loved ones support you in your vow. If you have a family, it is certainly important to let them know about your decision.
Step 4
Avoid temptation. If you allow situations where you can break your vow, you will be in a state of constant struggle with yourself to keep the commitments you made.
Step 5
Review your vow a few months later, then again a year later. If you still feel the need to honor the meal, continue the lifestyle that pleases you. If you have thoughts of abandoning a vow, carefully consider your decision: how appropriate is it to continue to follow your vow.
