The synagogue is a Jewish temple, the center of the religious life of the Jewish community. It usually welcomes everyone who goes inside, even if the person has no idea about the prescribed rules of behavior. Therefore, one should not be ashamed, on the contrary, one should ask experienced parishioners what to do in this or that case. However, to feel more confident, learn the basic rules.
Instructions
Step 1
Dress neatly and not too revealingly. When going to the temple, give up the thought of wearing shorts, a tracksuit, or a skirt that is too short. A woman should cover her hair with a scarf, beret, hat, other headdress, or wear a wig. Unlike Orthodox traditions, men must also enter synagogue with their heads covered. Any headgear will work, but it is best if you have a Jewish kippah.
Step 2
When you cross the threshold of the temple, be sure to touch the case that is attached to the doorframe. This is a mezuzah, it contains a parchment scroll with a passage from the sacred Torah. There are, however, synagogues in which there is no mezuzah. But prayer books (siddur) are available in any case. They are usually stored in special cabinets or racks, and any visitor can take them. Ask a shames or lay worshiper where you can find a siddur.
Step 3
In general, one must behave in a synagogue, as in any other church, with dignity - not swearing, not using foul language, not even being slightly intoxicated, not smoking. Do not interrupt the rabbi's speeches with your conversations, do not interfere with the cantor's prayer. This does not mean that you should not exchange comments at all, but the main thing is not to speak loudly. It is better not to take very young children to the service, they can interfere with the prayers. According to Jewish rules, a man can touch a woman in the temple only in one case: if she is in the closest relationship with him (mother, daughter, sister or wife). Therefore, do not shake hands with female acquaintances met in the temple, do not hug or kiss them.
