Often people are tormented in unfamiliar company, not knowing how to start a conversation. They look with envy at those who easily and naturally find words for any person, without getting confused in topics and without getting into awkward protracted pauses, and secretly dream of a magic tool that will endow them with the ability to strike up a conversation with anyone. In fact, starting a conversation is not difficult at all.
Instructions
Step 1
Classic recipes are still versatile. Start a conversation about the weather. “It's hot today, isn't it? Even Tunisia is not that hot. Have you been to Tunisia? " or "I haven't seen such a shower in a long time since I got caught in a storm in the Bay of Biscay."
Step 2
Try to construct your phrase so that it suggests the answer. It is also good to give a little information about yourself in order to interest the interlocutor. Even if you've never been to the Bay of Biscay, it doesn't matter. If you are asked: "Have you really been to the Bay of Biscay?", Answer: "Of course, every night at six years." Your joke will melt alienation and help you communicate.
Step 3
If, for example, you are at a conference or symposium where you do not know anyone, it would be appropriate to address with the following phrase: “N read an interesting report, don’t you think so?”. Or: “This is my first time at such a conference, and I don’t know if it is appropriate to come and thank N for the report?”.
Step 4
Don't be afraid to start a conversation with a compliment, especially if you have a woman in front of you (even if you are a woman too). For example, say: “I spent the whole party admiring your luxurious red hair and was jealous. Probably, you are already tired of the question, is this color natural?"
Step 5
After starting a conversation and listening to the answer, listen carefully to the interlocutor. From his reaction, you can understand if he is inclined to continue the conversation, how he relates to humor, and so on. Don't interrupt when someone answers, be friendly, and express interest in the conversation.
Step 6
Sometimes you can start a conversation with the help of some object. Sometimes, when people see a book with an intriguing title in the hands of other people, they themselves speak first, asking a question about the content. If you feel like chatting, be nice and satisfy curiosity, do not answer monosyllabically, it will be perceived as unwillingness to communicate.
Step 7
An animal can also help start a conversation with strangers. A small cute dog in a man's arms or a ferret on a leash, or a cute white mouse in a girl's arms can attract many interested glances. All you have to do is catch them and invite them to pet them.
