Gestures, glances, facial expressions can convey meaning, but only the word has a great informative load. When meeting with strangers, you can feel dissatisfaction that they could not keep up the conversation, and an interesting interlocutor was lost. Communication is an art that needs to be learned.
Instructions
Step 1
It is necessary to discard complexes and stop shading. If the interlocutor works in an area with which you are completely unfamiliar and there are no common interests with him, it's okay if you say so directly. Ask to talk about what you do not know. Use the conversation as an excuse to broaden your horizons. Do not hesitate and ask questions where something is not clear. The interlocutor will be pleased with your interest, he will be happy to communicate and find you an interesting person.
Step 2
Learn to listen. You can maintain a conversation even if you do not know the main topic or it has been exhausted. As a rule, in a conversation, the interlocutor mentions accompanying details that are not directly related to the main topic. Memorize them and when the conversation begins to fade, return to them and revive the conversation.
Step 3
Sometimes the person you are talking to is laconic and gives monosyllabic answers to detailed questions. In this case, use the so-called "bridges" - the words "For example", "And you", "And". Having heard such a word after a short answer, the person will be forced to continue the conversation, explaining the idea in more detail. And the conversation will start. Just remember to emphasize the last word of the "bridge" and lean back slightly, demonstrating a willingness to listen.
Step 4
Use the magic nod action to keep the conversation going. The nod of the interlocutor, which means agreement with the speaker, unconsciously disposes the latter to frankness. Even if he is silent, just nod a few more times and he will speak again.
Step 5
Use supportive and encouraging phrases like “Yes,” “I understand,” “Truth,” or “Go on, go on” in your conversation. These phrases stimulate the interlocutor to continue the conversation and provide comprehensive answers. Using simple techniques will help maintain a conversation with anyone and be known as a pleasant interlocutor.
