Your behavior and attitude towards older people demonstrates the level of upbringing. In order not to cause general disapproval and demonstrate respect, you need to know how to behave correctly when communicating with them.
Instructions
Step 1
Greet your elders first. The norms of etiquette provide that the one who is younger must be the first to greet the older person. However, this rule does not apply to the handshake. Here, on the contrary: the elder must extend his hand to the younger. When greeting, use phrases such as: "Hello", "Good afternoon", "Greetings". It is better to give up the usual "Hello", because it suggests a more frivolous attitude towards the interlocutor.
Step 2
Address the elders on "you". This will allow you to demonstrate your respect for the person you are communicating with. It is especially true when talking with strangers. It is also better to turn to grandparents using “you”, unless they themselves have asked for a closer, “home” treatment.
Step 3
Give up your seats to your elders, even if there is a place to sit in the subway car or in the bus. It is possible that it is quite difficult for an elderly person to reach an empty seat, so your elementary politeness can be very useful. However, please note that this advice is best guided only in our country. In many foreign countries, such behavior is considered unlawful, because it shows a condescending attitude towards older people and indicates their age.
Step 4
Don't be rude to your elders. Even if you think the other person's position is wrong, do not allow yourself to express your displeasure in a rude manner. This can not only offend a person, but also demonstrate your bad manners and disrespect for the older generation.
Step 5
Take care of the elderly, especially if they need your help. Help them carry heavy bags home, go down stairs, cross the road, etc. This will not require much effort from you, and the elderly person will be pleased.
