Providing help, a person feels great, generous, sympathetic, strong. The best experiences fill the heart, even if the help is done in secret. Unfortunately, joy can be darkened if help is not given to someone who needs it. Often scammers and lazy people ask for money or things, not wanting to work. There are several guidelines to follow to avoid this situation.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine what kind of help you are willing to give people. Your help can take many forms. For example, Alfred Nobel established an award that recognizes the best scientists and citizens in several fields of activity. The Nobel Prize was also awarded to poor scientists, for whom it was a great blessing. Some people prefer to help others not with money or material resources, but with their time. For example, you can visit disabled people, read books with them. Likewise, you can choose special people or special circumstances in which your help will be provided.
Step 2
Decide on the timing of your assistance. You can make a whole plan for years to come. In this plan, write down what number you will be separating some of the money, time, or other resources. A written plan will help you stay on target and keep good intentions. After all, the intentions of many people never translate into real actions.
Step 3
Think about whether your help will be secret or, on the contrary, others should know about it. Some enterprises build playgrounds, sports facilities, and then talk about it everywhere, creating an image for themselves. For this they are condemned in private conversations. But if the directors of these companies had no image motives, perhaps no one would be helped at all. If it weren't for the Nobel Prize, most people in this world would never have known that Nobel once lived. Determine your motives. If you want to "receive the award here and now," do so. If you prefer that no one knows about your help, do so. In any case, let someone become brighter and easier on earth from your help.
Step 4
Follow your plan year after year.
