Etiquette is a set of rules of conduct adopted in relationships between people. Those who want to give the impression of a pleasant, courteous, well-mannered person should take the time to study the rules of etiquette.
It is necessary
sources of information on the norms of etiquette
Instructions
Step 1
Identify the sources from which you will receive information on the norms of etiquette. These can be books, video courses, Internet resources, training courses, and others.
When choosing etiquette reference books, give preference to domestic authors. The fact is that etiquette is part of culture, and, as you know, each country has its own culture. That is why books written by foreigners and translated into Russian can do a disservice instead of help. In addition, it is convenient to have a book on etiquette always at hand so that you can consult it if the need arises. For this reason, you should not buy monumental folios, it is better to buy a brochure or a mini-format book that will easily fit into your purse.
As for the Internet resources, choose those that provide the most complete information and are convenient to use. You can recommend, for example, www.etiket.ru, www.oetikete.ru, www.etiquete.okis.ru.
Look for etiquette training courses in your city. If you are an employee of a company and your responsibilities include organizing meetings, contacts with partners, especially with foreign ones, discuss with your superiors the possibility of organizing training for you and other employees who need it due to their professional responsibilities.
Step 2
Start your etiquette training with those areas that you most often come across. In the morning, when planning your day, think about what norms of etiquette might come in handy, re-read them.
On the eve of important events, study especially carefully and try to remember the rules of good manners related to them.
If you are acting as an organizer of an event, mentally replay its course in advance, think over situations that may arise, work out all the details, checking with the norms of etiquette.
Step 3
During events, try to follow the rules of etiquette as far as you can remember: practice helps the rules to be learned. After a few repetitions, they become a good habit.
Step 4
After the event, re-read all the rules that should have been followed, mentally analyze what you did right and what you forgot or missed. Such an analysis will allow you to quickly master the norms of etiquette and avoid mistakes the next time.
Step 5
With people who share your desire to learn etiquette, rehearse different situations in which you want to shine with good manners. It is convenient to arrange such trainings in the form of role-playing games: the owner is the guests, the boss is the subordinate, the employee of the company is the client, etc.
