A secular society in any civilized country consists of intelligent, well-bred people, whose main dignity is intelligence, honor, dignity, self-control and, finally, politeness and delicacy. It is fashionable and prestigious to be a "socialite" in the modern world. A person who knows secular appeal knows how to behave in any society, deserves universal respect and approval.
Instructions
Step 1
Be courteous. Courtesy means, first of all, general attentiveness, courtesy to others. Learn to be indulgent towards people, give way to old people, women, children. Avoid using trivial expressions and swear words in your speech. Be nice and gentle in conversation. But don't talk about anything with excessive passion and fervor. Do not express yourself in a foreign or professional language in a society that does not understand you. Avoid disrespectful statements about someone else's appearance, profession, occupation.
Step 2
Learn to listen patiently to your interlocutor without interrupting him under any circumstances. Watch what you say, to whom, and in what tone. However, remember that excessive politeness is not a virtue, it burdens the interlocutor, suggests your insincerity and bombast. Therefore, out of courtesy, do not sacrifice your needs, do not show excessive compliance.
Step 3
Be polite by letting others know that you are courteous and familiar with etiquette. Easy politeness helps to win people over. Of course, this is not about bowing low, but about the ability to behave respectfully.
Step 4
Follow the above rules of decency. Try to avoid a dismissive tone, a proud look, too many explanations and digressions in your speech. Do not whisper in front of other people, do not look at the clock, do not read, do not hum to yourself when others are talking. In conversation, stick to simple phrases, do not get excited, do not utter laudatory phrases about yourself, your virtues and talents.
Step 5
And, finally, be yourself, do not assume an appearance that does not correspond to your status, and show others only the respect and attention they deserve.
