For each of us, the time for an independent, adult life comes early. Regardless of whether we are looking forward to it or are afraid like fire, there is nowhere to get away from it. The only question is how to build this very life, how to prepare for it so that there are no gaps and miscalculations.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, you need to decide for yourself here and now with your priorities. Your priorities are your desires and aspirations, elevated to the absolute. Often we have to sacrifice our goals for the sake of others - think about how right for the sake of the momentary benefit of another person to lose the long process of the path to the intended goal? Set priorities and don't deviate from them.
Step 2
Once you have clear goals, draw up a timeline of methods and ways to achieve those goals. It is necessary that the schedule has a clear structure, both in terms of actions and in terms of time frames. Also remember to have clear indicators to track your progress.
Step 3
These priorities do not mean that you absolutely should not care about other people. Communicate, help other people, but only if your plan is either already fulfilled, or your interests are being respected. Remember that investing of any kind in people is like investing in the stock market without prediction and analysis - you never know when you will win and when you will lose.