In modern society, a negative trend has long been formed, when adolescents are remembered only in connection with some kind of offense. But do not forget that the formation of the child's personality takes place during adolescence. So adults should think about what worries their children during this difficult time.
From the age of eleven to sixteen years, the psychological formation of the child's personality takes place. In adolescents, a period of internal conflicts begins, mood often changes and incomprehensible aggression towards others may occur.
Actual problems of adolescents
One of the main problems of adolescents can be considered their contradictions in communication with their parents. Adolescents in transitional age do not like to compromise and do not know how to behave with adults. Adolescents are really worried about the lack of understanding of adults, which they cannot cope with. Parents often break down and take extreme measures, which should never be done.
Also, modern adolescents are worried about communication with peers. Finding common ground with recent friends is becoming increasingly difficult. Often during this difficult period of growing up, the child is left alone with his emotions. In the initial stages, it is possible to overcome the distance between the adolescent and his peers simply through frank dialogue. But you shouldn't run the situation. Otherwise, it will not be possible to do without professional help later. The barrier between the child and the parents, as well as friends, leads to psychological loneliness.
Do not forget that modern adolescents are very concerned about their own appearance. This is the period of the onset of puberty, when you already want to arouse sympathy with representatives of the opposite sex. But all kinds of pimples, acne, excess weight can provoke feelings of inferiority. For example, adolescent girls may secretly start using their mom's cosmetics.
Sexual problems
Naturally, in adolescence, children are not only worried about their appearance. They begin to think about sexual relations. And here special attention should be paid to the sex education of the child. Parents should tell what promiscuous sexual intercourse can lead to, so that later there will be no problems. By the way, young people think about sex before girls. In the latter, interest in sexual relations is mainly expressed in coquetry and a desire to flirt with boys.
Usually, parents turn to psychologists, whose children behave loosely and do not want to obey their elders. By the way, such permissiveness is actively promoted on the Internet, where teenagers like to sit.
