Is there at least one person in our society who has never faced rudeness in his life? Perhaps only babies have never met this phenomenon, but they have everything ahead of them. Ham can ruin the mood for the whole day, instill self-doubt and self-doubt, deprive of faith in goodness and justice. Do not ignore boorish behavior, no matter who it comes from. Moreover, there are many methods of dealing with it.
Instructions
Step 1
Use his own weapon against the boor. Simply put, respond with rudeness to rudeness. You can use this technique only if you are absolutely confident in your strength and have an inexhaustible supply of abusive, mocking and offensive remarks. The boor must be answered immediately, without hesitation and without letting him come to his senses. You need to speak loudly and quickly, gesticulate violently.
Step 2
Break the template for responding to rudeness. Ham is used to the fact that they usually react to his remarks in the same way: they take offense, defend themselves, or try to convince. Begin to mock the boor loudly and derisively. Or, with exaggerated seriousness, pretend that you listen to him carefully, agree and catch every word. You can get out a notebook and write down the lines, asking the boor to repeat and not speak too quickly. Very quickly he will forget what he wanted to say at all.
Step 3
Apply the render method. Imagine a fat, shiny leech in the place of a boor. Watch her wriggling body, shiny back, and greedy mouth with interest and disgust. Don't try to hide your feelings. Looking at your physiognomy at this moment, anyone will lose the desire to tell you nasty things. This method works well for people with a rich imagination.
Step 4
Laugh. Loud, mocking and insulting. Every person has flaws. Look carefully at the boor, at his figure, clothes, hairstyle. Laugh at everything that seems ridiculous or ugly to you. This is perhaps the most effective and tough way to deal with a boor. Even he is powerless against evil ridicule.
Step 5
Sympathize with the boor. Only an unhappy, weak and insecure person tries to assert himself at the expense of others. Sympathize politely, coldly, and with squeamish pity. Such pity humiliates even a boor.
Step 6
Remember, you should not be ashamed to fight back rudeness, you should not accumulate resentment and anger in yourself. And then there will be much less boors in your environment. They are just afraid to get in your way.
