Hearing compliments from others is pleasant to everyone. Especially when it's not your standard "looking good". The science of speaking beautiful words is not studied at school and is not taught at institutes. Each person, if desired, can master it himself.
Instructions
Step 1
In order to learn how to say compliments, you need to understand a little about the psychology of people. What is nice to hear for men may not be interesting at all for women.
Step 2
In order for your compliment to reach its goal and be pleasant to the interlocutor, do not flatter him rudely. Your words can be perceived as sycophant, which will not add weight to you in the eyes of your opponent at all.
Step 3
A compliment to a man can be dedicated to his career success, such character traits as firmness, self-confidence, masculinity, perseverance.
Step 4
If you want to do justice to your interlocutor's appearance, pay attention to detail. It can be a watch, cufflinks, tie. A man will be very pleased if you appreciate his skill in assembling accessories.
Step 5
Compliments for a woman should emphasize her natural softness. Even if you are communicating with an iron business woman, a compliment to her femininity will always be appropriate.
Step 6
When complimenting women, you should pay attention to their appearance. You can emphasize how a new hairstyle suits a lady's face, how well a blouse emphasizes eye color.
Step 7
Women of all ages are pleased to hear that they look younger than their age. Therefore, focus on the fact that the lady today, as, indeed, always, looks fresh and attractive.
Step 8
Elderly people will always be pleased to hear about their own merits. Mention what they have achieved over the past years, what wonderful children and grandchildren they have raised. Tell them that they still have the honor and respect of their acquaintances and are surrounded by the love and care of their relatives.
Step 9
The main art to learn is to compliment at the right time. Subtly bring the topic of conversation to those traits of the interlocutor that you would like to note. Then kind words will organically fit into the conversation. And no one will suspect you of hypocrisy, even if some of the compliments are actually not true.
