Christianity recognizes two forms of organizing personal life: marriage and celibacy. If such a sin has happened, it is wrong to look for an answer how to redeem. The Lord said: Repent. Did not say: redeem.
Instructions
Step 1
Repent in soul and realize the sinfulness of fornication. Repent to your loved one if you have committed the sin of fornication towards him. Honestly tell him about the reasons that led to fornication, about your feelings, experiences, emotional state. Apologize to him and do your best to win back the trust and love of the one from whom you have fornicated. Do not maintain any connection with the person with whom you have sinned, and try not to allow even the hint that you might commit that sin again. Behave with dignity, decently, do not give even the slightest reason for your loved one to doubt the sincerity of your repentance. But at the same time, never allow yourself to be humiliated, do not tolerate mockery of moral or physical punishment.
Step 2
Try to explain that you are fully aware of the sin you committed and that you are ready to atone for it. Emphasize that you honestly confessed to fornication and now repent of committing such an act. Remind your loved one that your conscience constantly punishes you, that it does not allow you to forget for a second about the sin you have committed.
Step 3
Go to church if you want to atone for the sin of fornication before God. Confess to the priest, do not hide anything, tell everything as it was, do not embellish your story and do not try to gain understanding. Repent to the priest with all your soul and realize all the sinfulness of fornication. Never again fornicate, refrain from temptation and committing sinful acts. Start living a correct human and Christian life, confess more often and live according to church laws. Do not allow despair, which is also a very great sin, and is rooted in human pride. Ask the priest about the order of communion and be sure to start taking communion on a regular basis.
